Separation Anxiety
Disorder
Separation Anxiety and Its Effects on Children
What is Separation Anxiety Disorder?
Separation Anxiety Disorder is a condition in which
a child becomes fearful and anxious when away from home or separated
from a loved one -- usually a parent or other caregiver -- to whom
the child is attached.
Separation Anxiety is normal in very young children
(those between 8 and 14 months old). Kids often go through a phase
when they are "clingy" and afraid of unfamiliar people
and places.
It usually starts at about six to eight months
of age and lasts until about two and a half to four years of age.
Sometimes it can last longer if the child has had any painful separations
in the early years.
Under normal circumstances, Separation Anxiety
is the temporarily distressing result of something all parents want
and seek to maintain: bonding with their children.
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Separation Anxiety reflects the child's attempts
to hold on to what is safe in a very scary world, and it will settle
down as the child grows older and develops a sense of safety and
security in their homes and with their parents. As they grow older
they realize that parents or caregivers can leave and return and
their Separation Anxiety gradually fades.
However, when this fear occurs in a child over
age 6 years, is excessive, and lasts longer than four weeks, the
child may have Separation Anxiety Disorder.
Some children also develop physical symptoms, such
as headaches or stomachaches, at the thought of being separated.
The fear of separation causes great distress to the child and may
interfere with the child's normal activities, such as going to school
or playing with other children.
Separation Anxiety affects approximately 4%-5%
of children in the U. S. ages 7 to 11 years. It is less common in
teenagers, affecting about 1.3% of American teens and affects boys
and girls equally.
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Symptoms of Separation Anxiety Disorder
Physical Symptoms
Stomach aches, dizziness, racing heart, shallow
breathing and other common physical complaints associated with anxiety.
Teens are also likely to complain of headaches, heart palpitations,
shortness of breath, or having a panic attack.
Behavioral Symptoms
Crying, clinging, or temper tantrums when anticipating
or actually experiencing separation. They may have difficulty falling
asleep alone, and have nightmares consisting of images of separation
or death of loved ones.
Children having this problem might refuse to be
alone in a room; stay at school unless a trusted person stays with
them; sleep alone.
Anxious thoughts include:
- What if I get lost?
- What if something bad happens to mom or dad?
- What if I fall sick and mom isn’t around to look after
me?
- What if mom doesn’t pick me up after school?
- What if I get kidnapped?
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Causes of Separation Anxiety Disorder
Separation Anxiety often develops after a significant
stress or trauma in the child's life, such as a stay in the hospital,
the death of a loved one or pet, or a change in environment (such
as moving to another house or a change of schools).
Children whose parents are over-protective may
be more prone to Separation Anxiety. In fact, it may not necessarily
be a disease of the child but can be a manifestation of parental
separation anxiety as well -- parent and child can feed the other's
anxiety.
In addition, the fact that children with Separation
Anxiety often have family members with anxiety or other mental disorders
suggests that a vulnerability to the disorder may be inherited.
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Researchers have also pointed out that a chemical
imbalance between two chemicals in the brain (Norepinephrine and
Serotonin) most likely contributes to Separation Anxiety Disorder,
as it does to other anxiety disorders. Separation Anxiety Disorder
is a special risk for a child of an agoraphobic parent.
Researchers have hypothesized that children who
develop Separation Anxiety Disorders may have altered sensitivity
to Endocrine influences such as maternal cortisol, and the way in
which they process emotionally intense experiences of separation.
It is well known that certain parts of the brain (such as the Amygdala)
are involved in modulating the processing of emotional experiences.
Other factors that may indicate a child at risk
for Separation Anxiety Disorder during school years include:
- An extremely close-knit family.
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A temperament that shows fear and withdrawal
in new and unfamiliar situations.
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In girls aged 3 to 5, early temperamental
traits of passivity and shyness.
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Insecure caregiver-child attachment in early
years.
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Bullying and experiences of recurrent social
rejection may contribute to the development of separation anxiety
in vulnerable children and adolescents.
Treating Separation Anxiety Disorder
Most mild cases of Separation Anxiety Disorder
do not need medical treatment. You can cure Separation
Anxiety Disorder without using drugs or medication. Natural treatment
is based on scientific principles of how our mind works. Read more
on Drug-free
Cure for Separation Anxiety.
In more severe cases or when the child refuses
to go to school, treatment may be needed.
The goals of treatment include reducing anxiety
in the child, developing a sense of security in the child and the
caregivers, and educating the child and family/caregivers about
the need for natural separations.
Treatment options that may be used include:
Psychotherapy
The focus of therapy is to enable the child to
handle separation from the parent or caregiver in such a way that
it does not cause distress. A type of therapy called Cognitive Behavioural
Therapy (CBT) works to reshape the child’s thinking (cognition)
so that the child is bale to cope with his separation better.
Medication
Antidepressant medications may be used to treat
severe cases of Separation Anxiety Disorder.
Most children with Separation Anxiety Disorder
get better, although their symptoms may recur for many years, particularly
when stressful events or situations occur. When treatment is started
early and involves the family as well as the child, the child's
chance of recovery improves.
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